Saturday, August 30, 2008

Heck Yes Saturday

I slept until 9:30a.m.
My Love prepared bacon, eggs, hash brown casserole, and coffee flavored with Tiramasu creamer just for me and kissed me real good in the kitchen this morning.
My babies are AMAZING.
We are going to watch The Bucket List after breakfast.
A good friend is in town for dinner tonight.
And Alabama Football starts tonight at seven.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Who Elected Me?

To Have Twins?
God or Science?

A little bit of both I think.
People ask me if I was taking fertility when we conceived two babies.  No.
People ask me do twins run in the family.  Yes.  Nick and I have great grandparents on both sides that were twins.  I guess it was bound to happen, biologically.
But there has to be a deeper and more divine reason that I had twins.  Not because I am a "super mom" - this is my first time being a mother and I am no better at this than anybody else. There are lessons to be learned among singleton parents and mothers of multiples.  For me the lesson is to be comfortable with imperfections and to know that even abiding the most rigorous schedule will have it's surprises.
I'll steal a line from Stephanie, "to outrun the feeling of being needed beyond my ability to give" is impossible, but manageable.

The past two days, the twins have "woken up."  They need a little more than just a diaper change and a feeding before drifting back to sleep.  They need to see me and hear me.  They need to be held, stroked, sung to.  I can do this but at times it is very difficult when there are two lives to mold, not just one.  To tend to one infant can mean to neglect the other.  This is where the concept of "taking turns" comes into play.  My girls are learning this at a very young age.  Harper came with a partner.  Lily came with a partner.  
Did you know that babies can get bored?  Keeping them in the same spot all day, even if they are just sleeping, is not good.   So we have "stations" now.  The crib.  The boppy.  The swing.  The packnplay.  Mommy and Daddy's bed for tummy time.  Keeping them in a rotation seems to help their boredom and maximize nap times.
I am thankful that I have a husband who reminds me that just because they cry doesn't mean that I am a bad mom.  I myself told him when they came home not to be frustrated or feel the need to "bounce" them if they cry because it is their only language right now - let's listen.   But somehow I forgot that over the past couple of days.  I am learning it all over though and I am sure the minute I think I am getting the hang of things another growth spurt will come along and they will change the language again.   But I am here to listen and learn.

Sunday, August 24, 2008

What's Going on In My Neck of the Woods

Wow last nights storm was really something.  Winds knocked down a few branches in our backyard as well as a section of fence between us and our neighbor's house.  Ali took it upon herself to explore the uncharted land and mark it.  These particular neighbors complained to us once when we mowed a small section of their grass so needless to say I'll be wondering over with a Publix bag in a little while to confiscate any incriminating fertilizer.

Saturday was just the kind of day we needed at the Casa de Mielke.  After the 6a.m. feedings I was able to sleep late until 9.  After brunch I "tackled" a few chores that needed to be done a long time ago.  I sorted and organized the linen closet.  I put the old ragged towels in the laundry room to be used as mess cleanup rags and I color coordinated the "nice towels" and placed them on assigned shelves along with bed linens.  Then I moved onto the laundry room which I am pretty sure had not been cleaned or swept since before we moved in last April.  I used hot rags to collect and remove the millions of lent balls that had cemented themselves to the dryer and sorted through and reorganized the two shelves - compartmentalizing such bins as the tool box, bug killer/sunscreen, misc. box, and paint/putty/and picture hanging wire box.  Finally I swept and mopped the floors.  Then it was onto the master bathroom where I stripped the counter tops of all the clutter and proceeded to scrub and Windex and made it shine brand new.  THE SHOWER... TILE shower needed a lot of hands and knees scrubbing.  I have never been able to clean the tile and grout up to satisfaction until yesterday.  CLR, my friends, actually works.  Spray, walk away, scrub, then rinse with cold water.  You can notice the results immediately and the best part is the solutions keeps working even when you are done.  Our case was so severe that I will need to do this again and again over the next couple of days to see it look brand new and then do weekly follow up cleanings to maintain.  Not too much to ask.  BBC's "How Clean is Your House" really has some helpful tips such as taking a toothbrush and any baking soda toothbrush to the grout which I tried and found works pretty well too... this also leaves behind a nice minty aroma when you are finished.  The rest of the house would have to wait till today because after you clean a bathroom you immediately want to get back in the shower and clean yourself.

Dinner.  Hot, gooey, Southern, delicious.   I looked up a recipe in a family cook book my mom gave me for Christmas one year and decided to try Beef Tips on rice.  Easy recipe:
2lbs. of sirloins beef, cut into 1 inch cubes
Mix 1tsp. salt, 1/2 tsp. pepper, 1/2 tsp. paprika, 2 tbsp. flour in a large plastic bag or tupperware, add beef and shake.
Heat 2 tbsp. vegetable oil in a large soup pot and add seasoned beef, cook till brown and one large chopped onion till soft. 
Add 1 beef boullion cube to 3/4 cups boiling water and add to beef in pot.
Add broth to seasoned beef and onion, cover, and simmer for 2 hours and serve over rice.
(we wanted a thicker gravy so we SLOWLY added one more tablespoon of flour to the hot mixture and whisked until desired consistency)

We also had greens beans and then Ben and Jerry's icecream.  We started "21" the movie but I feel asleep and zombie crashed into the bed at midnight until the babies woke up at 3a.m.

I actually slept until 10 because Nick so generously took over until I got up.
Today has it's own events in which to look forward to; more on that to come.
Happy Sabbath!

Friday, August 22, 2008

Ali, I Don't Think We are in Alabama Anymore...

Is it really only 78 degrees outside... in August... in Alabama???
Wow.  It feels really really good.  I think we sort of deserved to have a summer like this one bearing in mind the extreme heat and humidity we suffered through last summer.  October is my favorite month of the year and I think maybe just maybe we might have the kind of fall perfect for jeans, flip flops, and my favorite long sleeve t-shirt!

Glamourous Maple
Every leaf, star of the show.
Let greens turn to gold.